Author: A.J. Bray

I'm A.J. Bray: disabled model, sexuality coach, writer, and author.

As a proud member, I believe wholeheartedly in the untapped diversity of the disabled community; something which I choose to revel in every single day of my life. I was born with a severe deformity that was later compounded by failed surgeries, internal hardware, juvenile-onset poly-osteoarthritis, fibromyalgia, and rheumatoid arthritis. Pain is part of my life, but not one on which I choose to dwell. I would much rather wreak havoc on the mainstream paradigm with my extroverted personality, killer eye contact, and zest for life. I am a woman first, a precocious writer of non-fiction and fiction second, a flirtatious model next, and somewhere in there, I'm a wheelchair user, foodie, and utter wine nerd. I don't let any one aspect dominate my life, but I don't seek to deny any of my attributes, either. I am whole. I am diverse. And I am adventurous. THAT is what I choose to define me...

...and that is what will keep me strong and sexy.